Seriously, why is there no female version of the masturbation scene in American Pie? That minute of cinematic magic normalized the bizarre masturbation habits of guys everywhere. Now, it's time for ladies to embrace that same desire to get freaky however they please.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Imagine you're at a party and a friend asks"Who's the best sex you've ever had?
Because you set the agenda and control the action by yourself, on your own terms, masturbation may be the best way to learn what turns you on. Most people raised as girls are set up to not enjoy sex in one way or another. They aren't told very much about their bodies in detail at least not about their genitalsthey may be told that sex is something to be afraid of, something to resist.
Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension.
Masturbation is an expression of self-love and self-care. By allowing us to get in touch with our most personal selves, it strengthens the relationship between our mind, body and soul. The act of engaging yourself in self-care through masturbation holds a wide array of benefits that extend to our psychological and physical health.
Masturbation can be totally daunting. I also get frustrated by how easily I can get thrown off course, or about how particular I am with my environment. Ultimately, though, I feel happy to have one reliable way to get myself off.
Sign up or log in to share. I like kind of cupping my fingers, finding my g-spot and shoving my fingers into the front wall, deeply, again and again, at different paces, just before I feel like I'm going to climax, I take my fingers out and stop. I wait for the feeling, close my eyes, get lost in it, then once it's just a faint warm feeling, I start all over again.
Porn isn't exactly famed for its realism. Women masturbate with legs splayed and backs arched, orgasming after a few minutes of frantic rubbing and moaning. But in reality, those positions aren't necessarily the most conducive to pleasure for women.
Being a woman can feel like a full-time job you never get off. So sometimes, the best thing to do is simply get off. How do you do it?
To that end, most of us develop our own unique masturbation techniques as we organically and literally feel our way through the process. Do women gently touch themselves as they lay sprawled across the silkiest of satin sheets, a wind machine blowing their perfectly coiffed locks of luxurious hair as a hand daintily pleases her carefully groomed lady parts, lip gloss coated lips parted just so? Because I once tried grinding myself up against a pillow in order to bring myself to climax, and when I told a girlfriend of mine about it her response was, "Becca, that's nothing. I once wrapped a stale pizza crust in saran wrap and went to town.